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building HEALTHy REALTIONSHIPS. REstoring PEACE.

Therapy for Difficult Family Relationships in Alamo, Danville and San Ramon

Online across CA

Living with stress from challenging family dynamics has become your new norm

Has navigating complex relationships with adult family members left you overwhelmed, stuck and disconnected? Have you found these relationships to be getting increasingly harder and causing you ongoing stress? Perhaps you’ve found yourself drained by the demands of juggling multiple roles - mother, sibling, daughter or partner - trying your best, yet still coming short.

You’re striving for healthy, happy and meaningful connections with your loved ones, yet finding yourself isolated, frustrated and dissatisfied.

The pain caused by these relationships has its toll on you…


  • You’re walking on eggshells around family members, struggling to set healthy boundaries and prioritizing your needs

  • You’re having trouble communicating effectively and often feel misunderstood and unappreciated

  • Past wounds continue to trigger you, creating conflict and distance

  • The pressure of “keeping the peace” has become too much to carry and left you anxious

Stress has interfered with many parts of your life, affecting your friendships, job performance, loved ones and even your physical health.

It’s possible to find balance, connection and reclaim your peace.

Relationship therapy can help you…

  • Understand causes of family conflict and develop effective communication tools to express your needs and feelings

  • Resolve past wounds by working through your emotions and setting healthy boundaries to protect yourself 

  • Repair broken relationships or find ways to accept and process losses

  • Balance your own needs with those of family members, supporting your growth and mental wellbeing


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You can finally let go of the weight you’ve been carrying. It’s possible to feel empowered and confident in building healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

Breaking free from emotional stress and finding joy is within your reach.

How therapy works

START THE JOURNEY OF CREATING RELATIONSHIPS YOU’RE SATISFIED WITH

Taking your family’s unique circumstances in mind, we’ll develop a tailored approach and use strategies aligned with your goals and needs.

Using evidence-based modalities like Narrative Therapy, DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy), Attachment work and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction are especially helpful in working through complex family issues.

What we’ll work on…

  • Understanding family history, patterns and behaviors that are contributing to current stress

  • Gaining the tools to challenge and replace unhealthy beliefs that are keeping you stuck

  • Developing emotional awareness into your triggers and managing negative feelings appropriately through mindfulness techniques

  • Using conflict resolution and problem solving tools to communicate effectively and set healthy boundaries with family members

  • Grieving the loss of estranged relationships and finding ways to let go and move forward

BUILD FULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS YOU’RE SATISFIED WITH

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  • This type of therapy focuses on you as an individual, making your needs, goals and experience the primary focus. My focus will be on helping you feel empowered and in control. In contrast, family therapy focuses on the family unit as a whole to help members resolve problems together. 

  • Our work will be focused solely on you; learning to use strategies that improve your emotional wellbeing and provide you the relief you’re looking for. Occasionally some clients invite certain family members for limited sessions to target a specific issue, but that is done on a case by case basis and in collaboration with you.

  • While you may not see changes in other family members, the goal is to help you manage conflict effectively, reduce tension and its impact on your life and set healthy boundaries for yourself. Many clients walk away with a greater sense of confidence, empowerment and peace in their lives.

  • Simply contact me here or schedule a free consultation to find out if relationship therapy can help you. 

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TAKE THE FIRST STEP IN RELIEVING THE BURDEN OF RELATIONSHIP PAIN